now the next part is a little embarrassing. i have turned into a total sissy since i have gotten married. i figure it is the role of my hubby to take care of these sorts of things, so i called him and whined enough that he came home from work (what if jake pooed through another outfit??? - i couldn't handle it!)
so jake's perfectly organized closet was dismantled...
matt was determined to find it. he looked for over an hour. he found evidence, including webs in the closet...gross. then he found a big web in the air vent.
he was checking it out with flashlights, but couldn't see the spider. he went to investigate from the other end (the crawlspace) and came up saying that there were several nests. oooh! he still couldn't find the spider. i said that i was leaving and would not be returning to our home until it was sprayed. luckily our friend and neighbor is in pest control and while i was at my mom's he was at our house spraying. so there were lots of black widows and nests in the crawlspace. thank you for toxic chemicals. not we just need to put jake's room back together, but right now i don't feel like going in there.